Friday, November 20, 2009

First Post

Hey guys welcome to this post which you probably won't see

Life is confusing in many ways but the way that confuses me the most is the misjudgment of labeling people.
They don't wait to see whether they are good, bad or even neutral people.
They base them on how they look and what they do.
They may be dressed in black for a perfectly good reason or may have had to get a job at the mortuary.
By looking at them and judging them is not how you find out a true person's personality.
You find it by talking to the person, socializing with them and being a good person by asking questions, answering questions and be understanding.
No good comes out of assuming how a person acts, out of assuming how they think or what they think of you.
They may look angry or upset but they may not be. Their facial muscles may be configured like that.
Or people that may be disabled or handicapped (yes I know they're the same)
They don't want to be judged or assumed. They want friends, family and colleagues just like you and I.

All I have to say now is.
Next time you see someone, don't just look at them and think "Oh he looks gumby, I'm not gonna talk to him... retard." Think how good a person they may be, think hey they may positively affect your life, or even others lives.
I'm sure that you have been judged and assumed of by others. Or think how it hurts them, if it were inflicted on you
Think, how did it feel? How would it feel?
I could even go to the extreme by saying that by judging people your socially handicapping them.

"Don't condemn others, and God won't condemn you. God will be as hard on you as you are on others. He will treat you exactly as you treat them.
You can see the speck in your friend's eye, but you don't notice the log in your own eye. How can you say 'My friend. let me take the speck out of your eye,' when you don't see the log in your own eye?"

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